Relationships typically break apart whenever your focus prevents being regarding the person youвЂ™re with and starts moving for you. You essentially turn him into an object who is a means to an end when you focus on your own wants, your own worries, your own fears, your own needs, and pay no attention to how your guy feels and experiences things.
The main reason all women canвЂ™t keep a guyвЂ™s interest beyond a couple of times is he feels because she gets so fixated on achieving some sort of relationship goal (like being official), and on figuring out how. You arenвЂ™t connecting with him as a person, you are using him as a means to feel good about yourself and worthy of love and that is not the pathway towards a meaningful connection when you do this. Continue reading A lot more than admiration, the majority of women need certainly to feel cared and adored for.